moving on with a positive note?

Deryck and I have been together for 6 and a half years. We have been friends since I was 17, started dating when I was 19, and married when I was 21. I am grateful for our time together, and I am grateful and blessed for our remaining friendship. I admire Deryck and have a great amount of respect for him. He is the most amazing person I know and I love him with all my heart. Deryck and I are separating and moving forward on a positive note.


Thank you to all my family, friends and fans for all your support.


Avril

(official divorce statement)

Now now now....although a lot of people (the media/press/fans) see this coming. Well, Hollywood couples never really last long anyway, do they? And what's with her getting married as young as 21. But somehow, I kinda felt sad upon reading this news the moment I woke up! I was supposed to be really excited to go home (I still am, just expressing my little sadness here) So, I felt a little down hearing this news coz they looked really cute together! They really do.

I mean, watching them go around town buying household stuffs, trying to dodge any lurking paparazzi snapping their photos and all, it's like they were just trying to have a normal life as a young married couple. But I guess, their love just died down. It's kinda ironic how just few days ago, I was like thinking...they managed to pull it through all the rumors these years and proving that they're still together. They were SEEN still wearing their wedding rings even! I guess both of them will have to laser off their small tiny tattoos that have a heart with their initials in it.

Sigh...but you know, they did last pretty long together. And they WERE very much in love together. But then, what's the point if you're not THAT much in love anymore with each other? It's like a breaking point which you have to figure out what's best for both. And since I've never experienced *love* before, I shall never know what it's like to figure out the point where you say to yourself and your partner " ok, this is it. We need to really think this over and make up a decision." Must be a damn hard thing to do. (I mean, IF both didn't have a fight but just fall out of love) It's a totally different story if both had a huge fight or the guy/girl did sth nasty or whatever.

But I think judging from their statements, they both ended up nicely and calmly without exchanges of blows or harsh words. T_T Ah, sad really. I was surprised to hear their wedding news back in the days really, but after seeing them together for so long, I was rooting for them. I really rooted for them.

but sometimes, if old things don't go away, new things don't come around. Seriously, I can't really imagine how it'll look like if Avril were to go out with some other guy soon. It'd look awkward for me. Unless that guy is much more reputable and handsome lol.

No wonder the album's been pushed back to early next year. Apparently, a source said that she's re-producing some tracks which were initially produced by her ex. It's ok. With this, she'd have more experience managing her own tracks. I just hope it'll be good.

One last thing- is it just me or her divorce statement is kinda sweet and romantic? I mean...it's a nice read. All about when they started out dating , then getting married and all. @_@

People do change. I've come to realize the fact. What makes it different is whether she/he's going to the better or worse. I hope she's heading to the better side of it. Not really fond of her recent style but since I was a fan from the year she came out, I shall still support her. ^^